The Heart Of Relationships

What is the relationship of Love?

A relationship is the physical and sentimental connection between two people. However, at Spiritual Life, we believe that there is a third connection, the spiritual one. Because the human being is made up of a physical body, a psyche and a spirit. This trilogy shows that the human being is much more than a body and a mind. It is essential to manage the human being with emotional intelligence. 

The power of communication

It is very useful to have self-awareness and self-control of emotions, to relate better. Learning to keep calm in moments of greater stress, when anxiety, fear, sadness, anger seem to destroy the emotional structure, it is essential to know how to communicate and feel well in order to be able to express oneself better. In a loving relationship, partners manage to self-regulate if they know how to talk about everything, in good times and bad. This daily sharing allows them not only to maintain a stronger union, but also to help each other and grow as a couple.

The imbalance

Relationships become a two-way street when partners occasionally or constantly stray from the main focus. For example, the man wants sexual satisfaction and the woman only attention and affection; the woman stays at home reading and the man wants to play sports with friends. These intellectual, emotional and instinctive mismatches, when recurrent, denote imbalance in the relationship. 

It is not the responsibility of a single person to carry the relationship on its «snail’s back» for it to stabilize and evolve. This is a joint function, and it is not possible for someone to love for two. Both have to look in the same direction and work on the relationship in the same proportions to achieve and maintain loving, sexual and spiritual balance.

At Spiritual Life we will tell you the secret of loving relationships. Happy relationships fit into four essential and so simple focuses.  Couples should always take these into consideration to build and maintain a healthy and exciting union. 

The foundations of love

– When you wake up, start the day with loving words and gestures with your partner. Love-filled words make the day more relaxing and easy because they stimulate joy, laughter and good vibes. Kiss, hug and make lots of love, and you will discover the beauty of having a partner who is always passionate and romantic by your side;

– «Open your heart» to your partner, as they are the most important person in your life. Do not be afraid of judgements from your loved one, those who love understand any situation, however delicate it may be;

– Include your partner in everything. Before taking decisions, ask your partner for his or her opinion, express your doubts, your wishes. It is important that he/she feels integrated and useful; there is nothing better than having your partner’s attention and care; you will see that the bonds will become stronger between both of you and complicity works miracles in love;

– Always think of your partner as a permanent relationship and focus on this, taking care with dedication. The love relationship is a life project and when it is envisioned in the long term the delivery becomes more salient.

In Spiritual Life’s vision, whoever wants to have a great love should cultivate the soil, take care of the roots and harvest the fruits, because the sweetest taste of life is always prepared with love, devotion and dedication.